How to Ride a Man Into Ecstasy
When it comes to sexual pleasure, riding your partner is more than just impressing him; it’s also an effective technique to gain control, increase your confidence, and unleash greater pleasure for yourself. Cultural taboos frequently prevent many Nigerian women from discussing this topic. However, the truth is that you deserve to be a confident, skilled, and powerful lover.
In this article, you’ll learn how to ride a man to ecstasy, master body movements, and make every encounter an exciting one for both of you.
Why Riding Is More Than Just A Sexual Position
Many women avoid the cowgirl position due to discomfort, awkwardness, or “not doing it right.” However, when performed confidently, this position is among the most erotic and empowering for both parties.
Advantages of Learning to Ride Well:
- Controls depth, pace, and rhythm.
- Enables visual connection with partner.
- Boosts sexual confidence.
- Increases chances of clitoral stimulation and orgasm.
And, best of all? It’s game-changing for your relationship. Men adore it when women take the lead; it’s incredibly appealing and memorable.
Step-by-Step Guide to Riding Him to Ecstasy
1. Set the Scene
Before anything, create a safe, relaxed, and sensual environment. Think of soft lighting, fresh sheets, and maybe even background music. This puts you both in the mood and eases nervous tension.
2. Start Slow Build Anticipation
Climb onto him slowly and sensually. Let your hips graze against him. Tease. Whisper something naughty. Let the anticipation build up—it makes the first thrust even more explosive.
3. Find a Comfortable Position
Cowgirl doesn’t have to mean bouncing wildly. There are variations to suit different body types and energy levels:
| Position Name | Description | Pleasure Level |
|---|---|---|
| Standard Cowgirl | You’re on top, facing him | Deep eye contact, sensual |
| Reverse Cowgirl | You’re on top, facing his feet | Adds mystery, boosts visual thrill |
| Frog Style | Knees wide, deep squat | Intense control, deeper thrusts |
| Grinding Cowgirl | Hips move in circles instead of up/down | Increases clitoral pleasure |
4. Master the Movements
There are 3 movements that drive men wild—and each one hits different pleasure spots:
Up and Down – Traditional bounce motion, good for building intensity.
Grinding – Rub your pelvis in a circular or back-and-forth motion.
Swiveling Hips – Rotate your hips in a figure-8 or side-circle pattern for maximum pleasure.
Pro Tip: Combine all three during the act. Start with grinding, switch to bouncing, and finish with circular movements to keep things exciting.
5. Sync Your Breathing & Rhythm
Your breathing can drive both of you deeper into pleasure. Let your moans match your movements. Rhythmic motion, matched breathing, and sensual eye contact take this experience from good to unforgettable.
6. Use Your Hands
While riding him, run your fingers over his chest. Or reach behind and caress his thighs. You can even touch yourself to increase your own arousal. This intensifies the pleasure—for both of you.
7. Boost Confidence with the Right Mindset
The most important skill? Confidence. Let go of self-doubt. He’s already thrilled that you’re taking control. Own your movements. Ride with intention. Moan freely. Let your body speak pleasure.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even if you’re confident, these little missteps can reduce the magic:
Moving too fast right away (ease into it)
Arching your back too much (causes discomfort)
Ignoring your pleasure (this isn’t just for him!)
Being too quiet (moans and words build excitement)
Want to Master the Art of Riding for Real?
If you’re ready to take your skills from basic to breathtaking, then you NEED to enroll in the Ride Like a Pro Reloaded Course.
This expert-led course by Mrs. Olawunmi Esan, a certified sex therapist and Africa’s #1 personal sex coach, teaches you:
- Pain-free riding positions.
- How to build core strength for better control.
- Sensual confidence techniques.
- Creative ways to drive your man wild.
- And so much more!
BONUS: Access real-life demos, exercises, and practical guides designed specifically for Nigerian women.
Ready to Be Unforgettable in Bed?
You have the tools. You have the desire. Now you just need the techniques.
👉 Click here to join the “Ride Like a Pro Reloaded” course now
👉 Or explore private coaching and consultations with Mrs. Olawunmi Esan
Frequently Asked Questions
Q1: What if I’m not flexible or fit?
No worries! The course offers modifications and tips for every body type. Comfort matters more than fitness.
Q2: Can I learn to ride if I’ve never done it before?
Absolutely. Beginners thrive in this course—it’s structured, easy to follow, and super encouraging.
Q3: Will this improve my chances of orgasm?
Yes! Many women report more orgasms after mastering these techniques and feeling more in control.
Q4: Is this suitable for married women?
Definitely. In fact, married women often benefit the most as it reignites passion and intimacy.
Q5: What makes this course different?
It’s culturally relevant, pleasure-focused, and created by Africa’s leading sex coach.
Q6: Is it discreet?
Yes, your identity and payment info are fully secure. Learn from home at your own pace.
Riding your man to ecstasy is more than a performance—it’s a partnership of pleasure, movement, and confidence. By taking control and mastering your skills, you not only give him an unforgettable experience—you unlock your own sensual power.
Now’s your time to shine.
👉 Enroll in “Ride Like a Pro Reloaded” today
👉 Or book a 1-on-1 private sex coaching session with Mrs. Olawunmi Esan
